i Have said what i need to say

Today having a meeting/counselling session together with a group of people to sort the problem out. each of us listen to everyone perception toward this problemand let each other know how we feel between each other.it was an open discussion session and it seems everyone have clearly statedtheir own expectation after that conversation.
it seems like everyone sharing the same vision.CUT off the relationship and moving forward on our own path.stop struggling and resisting to change the facts.and i have already said what i need to say.
"U cant force the environment/social to change in order to adapt your personality,but you have to change yourself to adapt the society"
"U cant change how people treat and look at you,you can only change yourself to a better person"
"need to know how to start the problem and solve the problem, learn how to take and also how to let it go/give it away."
"Need to learn how to stand up after every fall, instead of blaming other people, try to reflect on yourself and try to build back your own self esteem"
"Learn how to be independent instead of continue-ing depending on other people and force other people to go along your flow"